a friend and i were talking about loving and being in love and some interesting things came up. the most unbelievable was the fact that he is so totally gay like homosexual. now that hit me hard cuz xavier( not real name) is a very good looking guy. every girls dream. apparently he has been through enough relationships to last him a lifetime and reached a conclusion that all females are out to hurt him. then it dawned on me that many times "gayism" is a result of broken relationships or ugly past experiences. therefore much as its unacceptable in society its important to hear them out and even more important to do it out of love because you want to see them live a normal life. with that said i will stop by urging all of us to be the change we wanna see in the world so it becomes a better place.